This is the final book review in my current journey to discover how to coach other people and those on my team. I have learned a lot and now is the time to implement these truths and principles and help nurture, equip, and develop new leaders that will do farther greater things than I could do by myself.
Most people have heard of John Maxwell and some of his books are repetitive, but I am still relatively new in ministry so I can still learn from his books and for you Maxwell’s book might be a good reminder. Most of the principles that I learn from books are easy to read and think of how you will make those things come to fruition. It is a little harder to actually implement. That is the difference between followers and leaders. Leaders have the courage. John Maxwell tweeted out a quote by Sydney Smith. The quote is, “A great deal of talent is lost to the world for want of a little courage.” -Sydney Smith
I pray that I will be someone that has enough courage to be excellent.
Developing the Leaders Around You is a book that gives an overview to developing leaders. It is not that specific of a book, but is a good introduction to the topic of coaching and developing your team. The first half of the book is more introductory and less practical. The second half of the book is more practical in developing your team and leaders. There were some good nuggets in this book that I took away from it. I believe that I can learn something from everything; every experience, every book, every person.
Quick Hitters
In this section of the book review, I will point out some sections of the book that I especially liked and will try to use in my own life, character, and/or ministry.
1. The first nugget that I got from the book, Developing the Leaders Around You, by John Maxwell, is Maxwell’s strategy for training people. Training is a major part in children’s ministry. There are so many volunteers needed to make a children’s ministry successful. Training is taking place constantly. We have a system for training, but it is not defined and written out as well as Maxwell’s. His strategy for training is: Model, Mentor, Monitor, Motivate, Multiply.
Model: I’m doing, You’re watching
Mentor: I’m doing, You’re assisting
Monitor: You’re doing, I’m assisting
Motivate: You’re doing, I’m encouraging
Multiply: You’re teaching, I’m smiling
2. I have been a part of a good number of teams: sports teams, volunteer teams, event teams. I love teams and the positive outcomes of being a part of one. I want the people on my team to have the same great joy that I had being a part of my team. The next quick hitter is to work on forming a dream team. John Maxwell highlights three things that all great teams have: Common Goal, Cooperation, and Communication.
In kid’s ministry you would think that all have the same goal: to disciple kids. But a lot of the time, people get involved in ministry for other reasons. They want to get a piece of paper signed for volunteering, they want to watch their own kids, they think they can do a better job then someone else. People always have some motive. It is important to speak vision and communicate the goal. When the goal has been completed, make sure it gets mentioned so your team knows what a ‘win’ looks like.
Your team needs to cooperate with each other to be a great team. This involves trust. Without trust, the team members will not want to cooperate and listen to you or their teammates. To have a team that cooperates it is important to pick winners to be on your team. You need to be able to identify people that are not going to cooperate. Don’t give up on these people, but they need to understand the expectations of the team and are willing to be a part of the team.
The last thing is communication. Communication is huge. Without communication the team has no direction. Communication needs to take place between the leader and the team. It also needs to happen between teammates. This is the part I struggle with, but like I said the other day to someone, I am a work in progress. I’m okay with that and hope I am always at a place where I am a work in progress.
Without a common goal, cooperation, and communication the team has no chance of winning. Period.
3. The last quick hitter is probably the biggest nugget that I learned from Developing the Leaders Around You, and is about changing from being a manager to a leader. As much as I want to say that I am a leader, I have some managing qualities that I need to re-learn into leading qualities. One of the biggest ways to learn how to be someone, in this instance, a leader, is to understand the person’s thoughts. Maxwell outlines some things that a leader should be thinking. I am going to try my best to start thinking more like a leader and less like a manager.
Leaders Think Big.
Leaders Think In Terms of Other People.
Leaders Think Continually.
Leaders Think Bottom Line.
Leaders Think Without Lines.
Leaders Think In Teams of Intangibles.
Leaders Think Quickly
The mind is a powerful thing and dictates every action that you make. If I can get my mind to think about the correct priorities that will help me lead. Some of these I am better at than others. Evaluate yourself in terms of these principles and see what ways you need to improve your thinking. Think like a leader not a manager.
Those are my Quick Hitters:
1. Model, Mentor, Monitor, Motivate, Multiply.
2. Without a common goal, cooperation, and communication the team has no chance of winning.
3. Think like a leader not a manager.
Read the rest of the book for yourself. There is much more to learn and only a limited amount of time.